Contemporary Woman!
I understand that
She is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
Human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;
one, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
one, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people
who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your
family name;
one, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen;
one, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and
cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are,
maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are
as to what you want from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times
and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she
learns faster than you;
one, who has her own set of friends,
and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she
knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the
back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition
and your inherent insecurities;
yes, she can drink and dance
just as well as you can, but won't,
simply because you won't like it,
even though you say otherwise
one, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;
one, who is doing her level best
and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a
grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
one, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she
knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities
and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this still...
.
I understand that
She is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
Human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;
one, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
one, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people
who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your
family name;
one, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen;
one, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and
cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are,
maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are
as to what you want from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times
and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she
learns faster than you;
one, who has her own set of friends,
and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she
knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the
back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition
and your inherent insecurities;
yes, she can drink and dance
just as well as you can, but won't,
simply because you won't like it,
even though you say otherwise
one, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;
one, who is doing her level best
and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a
grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
one, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she
knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities
and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this still...
.
C sare fasad ki jaad shadi hi hai so join "No marriages" andolan n b happy 4 life... 
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lol newayz a nice post....
